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I have been practicing the
Dharma (Buddhist way) for about two years now. After several years of
travelling I developed a sense of spirituality which was further fuelled
by books by the Dalai Lama and Jack Kerouac among others. Eventually
I went on a retreat in Ireland with the FWBO (Friends of the Western
Buddhist Organisation) and began to take it more seriously.
Like Christianity and other
religions there are many different ways to approach Buddhism. But for
me it's more a way of living and thinking rather than religious rituals
and set beliefs. This, I think, is the reason it has become the fastest
growing 'religion' in the West. The main difference between Buddhism
and Islam or Christianity is that Buddhists place little emphasis on
the worshipping of God the 'creator' and more on the spiritual development
of the individual.
Occasionally I go to the
temple to pray or take part in a puja (ceremony), but mostly I meditate
on my own and try to observe the main precepts that the prophet Buddha
taught. These include; compassion, a understanding of impermanence,
an acceptance that there is always some sort of suffering and an acknowledgement
that you can minimise this through right understanding, right thought
and action, right speech etc.
In Thailand I have noted that their practice is far more ritualised
by making merit, appeasing spirits and respecting the monkhood, this
is because they practice Theravada Buddhism, an older and purer form
of Buddhism. But I have grown up under the influence of a Western culture,
which is often at odds with the austerity that is promoted in Buddhism.
This for me is the greatest challenge, therefore I tend to approach
Buddhism in a metaphysical manner.
Certainly it has benefited
my character, I now have more understanding and acceptance of fate,
and I'm more tolerant and less stressed out. I also have a diminished
fear of death and a greater desire to practice goodwill towards others.
Mostly I just lead a regular life like my friends around me, knowing
that if I do something unworthy, the karmic energy will come back to
haunt me some time later.
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